Don’t try to rain on my parade

I have been looking forward to my baby free girls night for WEEKS so of course since we will be spending some time outside I looked at the weather forecast for the day. The only day that it is supposed to rain is on Saturday. I think to myself well maybe it will be wrong. It was not wrong(for once weather man you are correct)

The good news it that the night is still going to go on as planned and the rain should subside after our dinner and we can still go to an amazing place downtown and have our drinks on the rooftop. The bad news is…NONE I am getting out the house with my girls and I have the prefect outfit :)

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IMG_1366Pants: NYDJ Jeans // Shirt: Asos// Shoes and Purse: Just Fab// Necklace and Rings:H&M

I fell in love with these jeans when Gabi Fresh wrote about them last September and I had to get them. Being a plus size girl you always are on the hunt of for great jeans. Well, these did not disappoint. They have just the right amount of stretch and are so comfortable. These are now a staple piece in my closet.

Since it’s a girls night I also decided that I would rock some metallic tattoos. I love bracelets but I have surprisingly small wrist so they always fall off. With these tattoos I can have the illusion that I am wearing jewelry and I don’t have to worry about losing anything.

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40 Date Night Ideas

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Before we were married my husband and I sat down and discussed what we expected out of marriage. One thing we both agreed on was that we needed to continue to date one another. It’s not advantages for your relationship to think that you or your partner will never change. One of the ways that you can keep up with the changes that comes with life and grow together is to have date nights. They can be something simple as just talking to each other about what your life plans are for the next five years to a weekend getaway vacation.

The important thing to do is for you to have a night to yourself where you don’t talk about work or the kids and you get to know your partner. We as a couple do this once a week. We have been doing this for the past nine years and even after the arrival of our son last year we still make time for us once a week.

A lot of times you may get into a dating rut and all you can think about are the quintessential dinner and a movie. Well look no further. Here I have made a list of some date night ideas.

  1. Painting with a Twist(Fun art date that you can drink wine at)
  2. Art Gallery
  3. Ride Go-Carts
  4. Go Kayaking or Tubing(in winter months Ice Skating or Sledding)
  5. Bike Riding
  6. Go Dancing(extra points if it’s a style you two have never tried)
  7. Visit another city
  8. Go hear Jazz,spoken word, or reggae
  9. Visit a Piano Bar
  10. Grab Beers at a local Brewery
  11. Visit tourist spots in your own town
Visiting a local Pier and having fun

Visiting a local Pier and having fun

12. Take a walk– around your neighborhood, a beach, a park, by a lake

13. Go see a local band

14. Visit the zoo

15. Go rock climbing

16. Attend a festival in your town

17. Go to an amusement park and ride roller coasters or take in some shows

18. Go to a farm and pick fruit that is in season

19. Go see fireworks

20. Spend the afternoon at the coffee shop

21. Get takeout and have a picnic in the park

22. Go to the Driving or shooting range

23. Netflix it up :) watch and entires season of your favorite TV show

24. Go Wine tasting

25. Go for a long drive and make a playlist of songs that remind you of one another you can listen to on the road

 

What about AFTER baby comes. Does that mean that you have to stop your weekly date night? absolutely not. That just means that you have to be creative and you may have to spend some nights at home. After baby goes to bed that is the time for you and your mate

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You, Me and baby makes three

26. Play a board Game

27. Rent a movie and have dinner on the floor with lots of blankets and pillows

28. Do a puzzle together

29. Cook a dinner together

30. Record a video about when you met and fell in love(watch it on your anniversay)

31. Give each other massages

32. Play a video game together

33. Ice Cream Sundae night

34. Grab Takeout and eat by Candlelight

35. Read something together

36. Plan your dream vacation

37. Share where you want to be in 5 to 10 yrs

38. Play a card game

39. Make milkshakes

40. Make a pizza from scratch (don’t forget the wine)

 

All in all have fun with each other and keep communication open. Those are a few keys to a happy relationship

What are some of your favorite date night ideas? I would love to hear from you

 

Toddler Activity: Edible Homemade Paint

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I am not a big DIY person. However I looked up a recipe on how to make paint for my son. Yes I know that I could just go to the sotre and purchase some finger paint however, my son is still in the stage that he likes to put everything he touches in his mouth. This recipe is GREAT for the child that still likes to eat what they touch. I should also say that even though this recipe for paint is non toxic and that it can be consumed it is NOT meant to eat. I use the word edible in the description because if they happen to put it in their mouth then it’s ok. To make this BABY friendly all you need is yogurt and food coloring :)

This is very easy to make and the ingredients are things that many of us have in our home already.

  • Flour
  • Sugar
  • Salt
  • Food coloring
  • Water
  • Plastic Cups

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 Add 2 Tablespoon of sugar to pan

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1/3 cup of flour next

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1 Teaspoon of Salt

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2 cups of Water and turn on heat to stir mixture together

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Mix continually  until smooth and mixture thickens

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Pour mixture into plastic cups equally. I have four cups for the four colors I wanted to use. (you can have as many as you like)

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Add The color. I wanted them to have a deep color so I added 5-6 drops( I used plastic knife to mix  the color

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Make sure that the mixture has cooled all the way down before letting toddler play.

while it was cooling I set up a play area for my son. I used a trash bag that I cut and taped to the floor so clean up would be a breeze

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I let him have a blast. the food coloring didn’t stain the floor or my son. This is a great activity.

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Peek A Boo

I find that I enjoy simple play time with my son. Usually I am just in the moment. However, today I wanted to capture his silly side. I know that he won’t be this young forever and I will always cherish these precious moments. Now I have something to look back on and enjoy as he grows older.

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Beach Baby

I love when we have nothing planned on the weekend and we can just go with the flow. Saturday was a BEAUTIFUL day in Florida. The sun was out and the wind was blowing a nice cool breeze. After baby woke from his nap we decided that it was a perfect time for our first family beach day. I got our swim suits and my ring sling(so many parents were trying to carry their children on and off the beach with their things. I actually had one mom say “That’s a smart idea”  YAY for hands-free beach fun) We also decided to go later in the day when the sun cant cause damage to baby and our skin. We had a blast! We made memories and can’t wait to go on another beach adventure soon.

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“Sometimes we are lucky enough to know that our lives have been changed, to discard the old, embrace the new, and run headlong down an immutable course. It happened to me … on that summer’s day, when my eyes were opened to the sea.”

                                                                                     — Jacques Yves Cousteau